"Paul himself disagrees with a stoic passivity to every event in our lives, and he does not contradict himself. He says, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus" (Phil. 4:6-7). Paul does not say that we should not be anxious because God is in control and does whatever he pleases (though there is a sense in which that is true). Paul says that we should not be anxious because we are constantly pouring out our anxieties to God. Paul instructs the Philippians about how to fight anxiety through prayer. This is the same exhortation that Peter gives his readers. They ought to cast all their anxieties on God, because He cares for them (1 Peter 5:7). Paul is making the same point. There is to be thanksgiving, but faithful prayer does not ignore anxieties and pain. Faithful people will let their requests be made known to God; they will cast their anxieties upon Him. Also notice the goal of voicing these fears and pains and anxieties to God: the peace of God... Crying out to in anguish and fear to the God of heaven is not giving in to anxiety; it is declaring war on that anxiety. It is refusing to give up the fight.
Job is going to go on fighting for the rest of the book. Job is a warrior... Faith looks to God in hope, but faith is not blind, and faith is not lifeless. Faith doesn't pretend it doesn't hurt, and faith isn't apathetic about the gifts -friends, family, health- that God has given us. Faith loves those gifts of God, and when they are threatened or taken away, faith cries out to God, "Why are you doing this?" Faith is hungry for goodness and justice and mercy. Faith is the woman who won't stop bringing her requests to the master, because he is the master and because he is the Lord."
Praying without ceasing and giving thanks...